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don't send the mother to the nursing home

The daughter-in-law said "Made uninteresting, mother said that there is no taste Now making a little salty Mother said that I can't eat And what to do! "
When the mother saw the son come back Don't dare to say anything Only swallowed the rice in his mouth The daughter-in-law looked with anger.
When the son tried the food that the mother was eating Then said to his wife
"I told you already, isn't it? That mother's disease can't be eaten very salty? "
" Okay! When was your mother The next day, you can do it yourself, "said daughter-in-law. Then flicked his face and walked into the room
The son called with heart. Then turned to say to her mother,
"Mom, don't have to eat I'll boil the noodles for the mother to eat. "
" Do you have anything to say to your mother? If there is, then tell Mom. Do not keep it. "Mother saw the anxiety of the son.
"Mom, next month I have promoted Afraid that there will be more responsibility My wife wants to go to work, that is .... "
Mother immediately knew what the son would say next ....
"Do not send the mother to the nursing home. Child ..." The mother pleaded.
The son was still thinking for a long time. But try to find a better solution.
"Mom, it is good to stay in a nursing home so that the mother is not lonely. There is someone to take care Better than staying at home. If my wife goes to work She will not have time to take care of my mother. "
After he had finished bathing, Then come out to eat noodles Then enter the book room He stood still at the window. There was confusion and conflict in his heart. Don't know what to decide!

His mother was widowed since young. Persist in suffering, raising him until growing up Also sending to study abroad But the mother did not claim what he had done as a bargain for him to raise Instead, the later wife called for him to be responsible. Did he really have to send his mother to a nursing home?

"The person who will be with you at the end of your life is your wife, not mom!" Friends often warn him like this.
"Your mother is old. If lucky, you can stay with you for many years. Why not rely on the rest of the mother's time and then give gratitude to you? Don't wait for you to want to be grateful, but your mother is not there anymore. And you will be sad! "Relatives often warned him that this He didn't dare to think anything further. Afraid that he will change his will.
Evening then the sun is about to set down the horizon. He sat quietly alone with a depressed heart.

At a luxurious, nursing home outside the suburbs He spends a lot of money to replace his mother's guilt. At least this place is convenient.
When he supported his mother into the building The big screen TV is showing funny movies. But without even a single laughter from the audience A number of old people who wear the same clothes Sitting on the sofa, watching the entrance with staring eyes An old woman bent down to collect candy that had fallen on the floor and put her mouth.
He knew that his mother loved a bright, open room. So choose a room where the sun's rays can shine in When looking out the window The leaves are falling to the grass a lot. Many nurses are pushing a wheelchair with an elderly person sitting out to watch the sunset. All around quiet Causing him to tremble in his heart
Even how beautiful the light of the setting sun That means that the dark night is about to take its place. He sighed softly
"Mom ... I have to go now." Mother can only nod.
When he walked from The mother still waved goodbye with a sad expression. The mouth is open without any sound at all times. When he turned to look Thus, the gray hair of his mother in his heart, "Mom, really old,"
is portrayed in the past was formed in the realm of ideas. That year, he was only 6 years old. Mother has business, have to go to other provinces Therefore having to take him to leave at Uncle's house When the mother leaves the house He is very scared. Kept hugging her legs and not allowing her to go
"Mother, don't leave me. Mother, don't leave me! "Finally, she didn't dare to leave him to another province.
He hurriedly stepped out from here as quickly as possible. When he closed the door, he didn't dare to look back at his mother.

When he returned home He saw his wife and mother-in-law taking the belongings of the mother to throw out of the room.
A standing trophy about 3 feet tall that won the "My Mother" essay contest.
The English-Chinese dictionary that the mother bought for him on his birthday, which was the first gift he received from his mother.
There is still water balm that the mother must apply legs before going to bed every day.
"Stop now! Why did you throw my mother's stuff out? "He asked with anger.
" All of the garbage, if I didn't leave, then where would I put my stuff? "Mother-in-law said unhappy.
" Yes, you hurry. Can throw away your mother's rotten bed. Tomorrow, I'll buy a new bed for my mother! "
Old pictures of him laying on the ground. It was a picture of her mother taking him to a zoo and an amusement park.
"That is the property of my mother. No one can throw it away! "
" It's too much. How to make a noise with my mother? Sorry, my mother now! "
" I chose you, you must love your mother too. But you married into my house Why can't you love my mother? "

The dark sky after the rain Chilling to the heart The streets are empty without cars. One BMW rushed forward as if on a racetrack With the whine of a man who was heading towards a nursing home outside the city,
he finished the car park. He rushed up to his mother's room. When opening the door to enter He stood looking at his mother with an unfortunate feeling of forgiveness. His mother bent his head, using his hands to massage his own leg.
When his mother looked up at the door Saw his son standing and holding a balm in his hand And said in a gentle voice that
"Mother forgot to bring too. Well, I took the children to be ... "
He went over to her and knelt down to
" the late Mae Tha own children to go to work tomorrow morning, I'm back! "
He paused for a moment. Finally, I couldn't hold back my tears.
"Mom, I'm sorry. Mom forgives me. Come back to our home! "

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I love you when you were young. Mother takes all the time to gradually teach you to use a spoon to use chopsticks to hold food Teach you to put on as much Teach to clasp buttons Teach you to wear clothes Shower you Wipe up the urn and give it to you. These things, I never forget.
If one day I can not remember or start to speak more slowly Give me some time to wait for the mother to have me think ... sometimes. What mom wants to say to you Mum may not be able to speak to you any more.
I love you, do you remember how many times I have to teach you to say the word mom!
Mom, how happy are you to start speaking in sentences?
How many times does a mother have to answer your question? Before you understand what you are wondering about!
Therefore, if one day, Mother asks you repeatedly and again with the same story Please don't bother, can you?
Now the mother may not be able to press the button of the shirt. When eating, may spill clothes. Don't you, Mother? May you be patient and gentle with your mother. Please only be next to Mom. Mother felt the peace
of love. Today, the legs of the mother began to weaken. Can not stand for long Difficult to walk Ask children to hold hands and support mother. Walked as a mother friend until the day that the mother died Like the day you gave birth I propped my foot like this! 


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Gishnu G K Said on 11-05-2020
Never ever send your mother to old age homes
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